Being unemployed can take its toll mentally, physically, and emotionally. One common concern I hear from people who are unemployed is around finances. Having an income stream cut off or dry up can easily lead to anxiety, fear, and depression. It can also make people feel like they have little control and choice in life. The truth is that, even with financial constraints, you DO have control and choices around finances — both around income and expenses. Here’s another belief I hold: that even if you are unemployed, you have the right to smile, laugh, enjoy life, and have fun.
Let’s talk about some of the choices you have around expenses. In addition to having choice around how you spend money and what you spend money on, you can choose to seek out resources to cut your costs.
For example, if you have medical bills, you should know that many hospitals and medical groups offer significant discounts for services paid in cash within 30 days of the service or treatment. If you are hospitalized, talk with the billing office, hospital staff, or social worker before you check out of the hospital to ask for help in lowering the bill. Depending on your situation, age, and condition, the hospital might have a foundation or other funds to assist you.
You also have choices around finding other ways to make money. You can choose to find a temporary job while you seek more permanent work. Some people refer to this type of temporary work as a “survival job.” Personally, I prefer the term “tapping into an alternative revenue stream.” Rather than think of it as surviving, think of it as tapping into your creativity and resilience.
You might ask, how can I make money? Plenty of ways. To get started, try brainstorming 20 ways you can make money legally and reasonably. You might think your choices are limited, but that’s simply not true. When I led this exercise at a recent conference, people got really creative. Some of the ideas they shared included being a practice patient at a medical center; teaching older adults to use technology; tutoring; and dog walking.
Don’t forget that in addition to cutting expenses and generating income, you can try bartering. Chances are, there are people who could use a skill you have. If you find that you are in need of a service, ask about an exchange of services. For instance, a coach I know provided coaching services to someone who completed a small home improvement project for her.
Remember: don’t let your financial situation define the essence of who you are. You are more than your checkbook balance. You have choices and you have control. Get creative, find support, and take charge of your life.